Robin and Jan,
Thank you both for the responses.
I can understand how someone with Lupus can at times appear to be rude. There are days that I come across that way, but the reality is that most of the time my writings are in a kind tone. Some people with Lupus do have obesity problems, and yet others have problems with anorexia.

Thanks again to both of you. All I have done is posted responses to what I thought was clearly a "weightloss banter . net" site.

Best to both of you,
Lynnette